Dimensionsofgold

Y'all, I'm so happy and grateful about my blog's growth, new readers, engagements, and all the re-post. So I thought what better way to show my excitement than let you all know about the person behind Dimensionsofgold. Well, my smart self couldn't come up with a get to know questions but my very good friend came in handy so let us get started; 1.What is your full name, how old are you and where are you from? My name is Emediong Francis Udoudoh, I'm 20yrs, from Akwa Ibom State, Nigeria. 2021-23 2.Why do you write? Because I can and it's a gift from God. 2021-I'm barely writing of recent. 3.What inspires you the most? Reading other people's writing gets my imagination working. 2021-Consistency 4.Who did you idolize growing up No one. 5.What gets to you most Harsh words or statements. 6.What's your favorite book? Why Ask Why by John Mason. 7. What's your favorite song? and why? You are gonna be ok by Jenn Johnson bec...

Last 2 weeks i wrote the first part of how we could maintain our individuality while being in a relationship.Maintaining individuality in summary is; how can i be a part of us without loosing me,how can i still be focus on my dreams and goals without neglecting our dreams and goals. For the second part of this topic,couples should: MAINTAIN THEIR INTEREST Isn't it weird people loose themselves in the course of changing their personal interest to match the interest of their partner when from Genesis it was those personal interest that really attracted this partner. Some people go as far as making their partners dream theirs neglecting their own goals.You should support your partner 100% but don't make his/her dream yours.No matter the energy and time you invest in a dream that is not yours, you will never be satisfied regardless of if the goal is achieved or not.Support him/her all you can but let their dream be theirs and work on your own.There is so much joy that comes ...

Individuality in a relationship means there is me,there is you and then there is still room for us,so maintaining individuality in a relationship is;how can i be a part of 'us' without losing myself. There are two groups of people in relationships; the first group gets into a relationship with expectations that this union for some reasons best known to them will wash away their insecurities and unresolved past lives and the second group are those with the illusion that this relationship will build,grow them and whatever illusion they have. I'm not disputing the notion.Relationships should help you grow,if it is not helping you grow then you are just in a ship but when you go into a relationship with this mindset there will be an imbalance because one person is depending on the other person for growth or both individuals are expecting this bond to help them grow which will not happen. So within this fantasy or illusion of growth both individuals begin to lose the...

I'm not even here to answer that question because honestly it is none of my business if you decide to and it is none of yours if I decide to. So just drink water and continue reading. I'm just here to paraphrase the question because really it is often if not always directed to the women like somehow they slept with themselves. Does having sex on the first date make me a hoe?...wrong question Does having sex on the first date make us hoes?..correct Society blah blah blah, double standards rubbish. If women can be hoes then what is wrong with men being described as hoes. It's so annoying that these same guys when they give their perfectly scripted useless reason on why a woman who has had sex on the first date should be described as a hoe, they go on and on about values and dignity...like shut the hell up. Values and dignity go both ways. You can't be thinking because I have slept with you I have lost my dignity before you  and the world at large while to me...

I will never understand when some guys say they do not know how to communicate well and for some unknown reasons some girls accept it.How does he not know the basics of a relationship and yet wants to be in one. The annoying part;he keeps chanting he is trying alot in the relationship and as the memory verse goes''women benefit more''instead of working on himself. Let me play this out because you love him,so he manages to convince you that the reason for his non chalant attitude in this relationship is due to his poor communicating skills that he has no power over because  (A)he was born that way (B)his father or mother doesn't communicate well so it is inherited Now,you love him and he tries to convince you while doing the bare minimum so he manipulates you into making excuses for him. Don't you get it!when he manipulates you,you make excuses for him,justify those excuses with the satisfaction you have gotten from him doing absolutely what a normal hum...

Why do most guys feel women are complicated when in the real sense there is just no balance in their relationship. Why do they feel instead of working things out and listening to what the girl even has to say at least to have a common ground, they bail out with the "you are so complicated"talk. Why won't you see her as a complication' when she is going so hard for you and you are doing the bare minimum but still expect praises from her for doing what you are supposed to do. Why won't you see her as complication when somewhere along the line you loosed interest in her and instead of addressing the issue,you become selfish and satisfy your greed outside and when she speaks up out of anger..you say she never understands you. Why won't you see her as a complication when you didn't go for your level and for some unknown reasons you want her to lower her standards.If she doesn't,she becomes a proud girl. I would never understand those who say women s...

I'm yet to decide if the love didn't fit or it was just too much but can love ever be too much?? The one time i had to shoot my shot without realizing the bullet only scratched him and was gently waiting to backfire.Story of my life. So i thought this love had finally come in my size because at first everything seemed to be in the right proportion.The attention and what have you so i was lost in my fantasies that had come to life and didn't really notice when most of the things he did had become too much.Oh,well:i did but i kinda felt it was still cute until i started choking so bad that i needed help.Trust me,when i met this love i was new because the old me will opt out of any relationship at the first quarel or when i feel any negative vibe or because i just wanted to.It was easy cause i met people daily so going through people phase was a norm. When i met this love,i thought it was just some random phase again but somehow i decided to be serious even when love wa...