Dimensionsofgold

Hy 2017,it's that time of the year where people begin to think of promises they will make to your elder sister 2018 because apparently, you broke their heart or they broke yours! so they are finding ways to make amends in the new relationship they are about to get in. Uuum,you know..some will say you weren't the right partner, but for them to get out of you into a new relationship 2018 alive;damn you were worth the try.Well,the important thing is; your season is over and we all had our fair share of lessons and blessings,some of us didn't get to fulfill our own part of  promises to you through our new year resolutions and guess what,we are about making those promises again....hhahahah,did that make sense. I am not the type to make new year resolutions because;come on..who am i deceiving.I don't get to do or fulfill any of it.The funny part is after the 1st week or so,i end up seeing the diary or whatever i used in writing the resolutions in a very unusual place

Story story.... I have been waiting for the right time to write this but every time i am always lost of words not until i saw a post on fb..a young pharmacy student in her finals got ill and died..i just can't believe He has seen me through until the last month of 2017.We don't look like what we have been through,this saying' is very correct.2017 wasn't exactly the best year but here i am today and i wouldn't blame 2017 but 2016. If there is one year i would want to be deleted  from my life,it's 2016.I made the worst kind of decisions..to sum it all..i lived 18 years in 12 months.Lets fast forward to when i arrived Ukraine;my whole life, i have always wanted to leave home..no one was maltreating me or whatever,i just didn't want to be at home.I imagined i will be much happier if i was far away from home so you can imagine my excitement when i finally left Nigeria.Appreciate your family,they are the ones that will always have your back no matter what.

One of the frustrating things in starting a new relationship is the ''what are we question''.I read a post where the writer said before you ask the ''what are we question''..give it time,but how long should it be before you ask.For me except you can live with unnecessary memories then ask the first week you guys met.In one week you can have sex with the person,on the first day you can kiss the person.In one week you can make your life revolve around him or her so unless you can bear the pain when he says something you didn't expect as to what you thought you would be to him..then ask him on time so you won't be sending some kinds of messages and the other party will be wondering what is happening. If you ask early and he says you are just friends...fine,you know you don't have to stress about him.If he says he just wants to enjoy the moment..cool,enjoy the moment as much as you can after all no one is accountable for anyone or back out.M