Dimensionsofgold

I remember having a conversation with a love interest and in the course of that conversation he mentioned he wouldn't be kissing his partner until they got married. And I responded with a "lol". We had agreed on sex not being an option but kissing? I didn't see anything wrong with that. I had heard of couples whose first kiss was on the altar and I knew that wasn't going to be my story so when he said kissing was a no I knew this will only be a "could have/would have been relationship." I remember when Pastor Nathaniel Bassey tweeted "everyone is a Christian until it's their wedding day" and I just wondered if he wanted me to dance to "Is your name in the book of life." I'm not ready to get married now. I might be in 4/5 years but I can only plan, ultimately God's will be done. Click here to watch my non-negotiables in a man   My not being ready doesn't stop men from approaching me with their intent so I try to lay som...

So I came across a post ,a pre wedding post actually; where the bride was on and on about how she met the guy. Now I don't know if she had previous encounters with other people she dated but her post specifically showed she never had any sexual encounter with her fiance.  She said she had been praying for her future husband and she wanted a Christian man with all other attributes including staying "holy" till marriage so her prayer got answered when the groom in question suggested they shouldn't even kiss till marriage. Wahala for me o I get the whole Christian dating and what have you but these dudes dated for a year before they got married. Talk about be ye not conformed to the world Some people(e.g me) consider kissing a normal rite like we don't even need to date before we kiss and these ones are very sure they will get married and they are..I don't what they were doing. God is the creator of everything including sex but he created sex under marriage, s...