Dimensionsofgold

"I do not take you to be my lawful wedded husband I promise not to have and hold you  from this day forward, till death do us part" The transcript for this new age or woke generation however you want to describe it doesn't have "honoring vows" as part of its guidelines.  Our vocabulary seem to have a lot of breakups and divorce instead of commitments and it makes me question the  need of making vows if we won't at least try to make it last forever. What's the need of saying ''I do'' when what you are really saying is "I do only when it's smooth" We view relationships as something we can easily get out from and as much as we should have the liberty to get out of a relationship when it doesn't align with our purpose anymore we seem to have taken that liberty too far. Each one of us has a different definition of love and when we come together it becomes a clash of the titans. God knowing this would happen gave us a clea...

I'm yet to decide if the love didn't fit or it was just too much but can love ever be too much?? The one time i had to shoot my shot without realizing the bullet only scratched him and was gently waiting to backfire.Story of my life. So i thought this love had finally come in my size because at first everything seemed to be in the right proportion.The attention and what have you so i was lost in my fantasies that had come to life and didn't really notice when most of the things he did had become too much.Oh,well:i did but i kinda felt it was still cute until i started choking so bad that i needed help.Trust me,when i met this love i was new because the old me will opt out of any relationship at the first quarel or when i feel any negative vibe or because i just wanted to.It was easy cause i met people daily so going through people phase was a norm. When i met this love,i thought it was just some random phase again but somehow i decided to be serious even when love wa...

Once i had a conversation with someone and somehow it evolved into me describing my boyfriend that never existed,he paused me;laughed and said"you are actually describing someone that doesn't exist" and as usual,he went on to advise me that i shouldn't have a type rather i should just go with whoever comes.Thats a pretty good advice for some people. For the longest time,i felt i should love unconditionally and also get an unconditional love in return and you know i tried that but i'm more of a conditioned loving kind of person.The reason you need a type is not so you fit a particular person in the box you have created because really no one person can actually be your type,but to avoid meeting the same waves of people all because you are going with the flow.Yes,you need a type so you can say no to what will end badly rather than take a chance.The devil is working day and night,you can't take a chance with your destiny. Your type comes from your personality ...

Someone just called me her sister and I'm like;really. We have been through ups and downs and in my wildest dream I never thought she will still call me her sister  which brings me to todays topic: Love. I love"love"..yea. Its the most beautiful feeling in the world especially if you are someone who loves with their whole heart and then; finds some one who can contain all the love you have to offer. which is what I like and dislike about myself ;I can't half love anyone. If I have feelings for you its starting from 100 and I have tried severally to cut it down but I end up punishing myself in the process. If you are like me you are going to find true love one day but before that day you might go through a whole lot. If you are told you are too much or too intense take it as a red flag and leave It will hurt but just know, they were never meant to hold you and all you can offer so don't let any one shrink you. How do you know he or she is the one? truth is: o...

One of the frustrating things in starting a new relationship is the ''what are we question''.I read a post where the writer said before you ask the ''what are we question''..give it time,but how long should it be before you ask.For me except you can live with unnecessary memories then ask the first week you guys met.In one week you can have sex with the person,on the first day you can kiss the person.In one week you can make your life revolve around him or her so unless you can bear the pain when he says something you didn't expect as to what you thought you would be to him..then ask him on time so you won't be sending some kinds of messages and the other party will be wondering what is happening. If you ask early and he says you are just friends...fine,you know you don't have to stress about him.If he says he just wants to enjoy the moment..cool,enjoy the moment as much as you can after all no one is accountable for anyone or back out.M...

I listened  to a sermon from Elevation church and I think that was the best I have listened to concerning the topic that was preached. I will share what I learnt. This message is specifically for people who have a problem with getting past their past and if you don't have a problem with getting past your past i;m so glad you came to visit my blog. When I mean past,i'm not referring to  last year past or last two years..I mean last night past,last week and last month past. 2 Corinthians 5:17;"This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person.The old life is gone,a new life has begun".See, the problem  isn't I was bad and Jesus made me good but I was dead and Jesus made me alive....this is what happens when he comes into our lives.If you do not let your past die,it wont let you live. 3 thoughts the preacher emphasized on that will help us get over our past: In Christ you are completely forgiven One reason that makes us feel so condemn ...