Dimensionsofgold

Individuality in a relationship means there is me,there is you and then there is still room for us,so maintaining individuality in a relationship is;how can i be a part of 'us' without losing myself. There are two groups of people in relationships; the first group gets into a relationship with expectations that this union for some reasons best known to them will wash away their insecurities and unresolved past lives and the second group are those with the illusion that this relationship will build,grow them and whatever illusion they have. I'm not disputing the notion.Relationships should help you grow,if it is not helping you grow then you are just in a ship but when you go into a relationship with this mindset there will be an imbalance because one person is depending on the other person for growth or both individuals are expecting this bond to help them grow which will not happen. So within this fantasy or illusion of growth both individuals begin to lose the...

Once i had a conversation with someone and somehow it evolved into me describing my boyfriend that never existed,he paused me;laughed and said"you are actually describing someone that doesn't exist" and as usual,he went on to advise me that i shouldn't have a type rather i should just go with whoever comes.Thats a pretty good advice for some people. For the longest time,i felt i should love unconditionally and also get an unconditional love in return and you know i tried that but i'm more of a conditioned loving kind of person.The reason you need a type is not so you fit a particular person in the box you have created because really no one person can actually be your type,but to avoid meeting the same waves of people all because you are going with the flow.Yes,you need a type so you can say no to what will end badly rather than take a chance.The devil is working day and night,you can't take a chance with your destiny. Your type comes from your personality ...