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"I do not take you to be my lawful wedded husband I promise not to have and hold you  from this day forward, till death do us part" The transcript for this new age or woke generation however you want to describe it doesn't have "honoring vows" as part of its guidelines.  Our vocabulary seem to have a lot of breakups and divorce instead of commitments and it makes me question the  need of making vows if we won't at least try to make it last forever. What's the need of saying ''I do'' when what you are really saying is "I do only when it's smooth" We view relationships as something we can easily get out from and as much as we should have the liberty to get out of a relationship when it doesn't align with our purpose anymore we seem to have taken that liberty too far. Each one of us has a different definition of love and when we come together it becomes a clash of the titans. God knowing this would happen gave us a clea...

Last 2 weeks i wrote the first part of how we could maintain our individuality while being in a relationship.Maintaining individuality in summary is; how can i be a part of us without loosing me,how can i still be focus on my dreams and goals without neglecting our dreams and goals. For the second part of this topic,couples should: MAINTAIN THEIR INTEREST Isn't it weird people loose themselves in the course of changing their personal interest to match the interest of their partner when from Genesis it was those personal interest that really attracted this partner. Some people go as far as making their partners dream theirs neglecting their own goals.You should support your partner 100% but don't make his/her dream yours.No matter the energy and time you invest in a dream that is not yours, you will never be satisfied regardless of if the goal is achieved or not.Support him/her all you can but let their dream be theirs and work on your own.There is so much joy that comes ...

There is a time to let your life revolve round someone else but  today let your life revolve round you. You have been through a lot all in "Love's" name and the idea of "patience". It's time to live life and stop letting life live you. This is to all the broken hearts who have made mistakes,lost themselves to self pity and set non-existent boundaries,who make themselves an object of scorn but go about with a smiling face. It happens you wake up some days with no glimpse of how life that day will look like. You get through some days a little better than the last but then you have days where you can't get up at all. Woes of our mobile phones;one text and call to that someone you feel might make you important and your need's take over.  The need to feel accepted,appreciated,adored and in one minute you forget your sanity to flattery. You lessen your worth for dishonest words. AND IN THAT MOMENT,THIS IS FOR YOU ;  Relax,as long as you are alive the...

  Who were you before society told you who to be What would you do if you were not afraid of being judged If you could be anywhere  WHERE WOULD YOU BE