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The other day I was privileged to attend an event, it wasn't necessarily a church program but it centered around Christianity and women. So of course the guest speakers would be women but one was particularly very interesting. This lady  went on and on about how Christian women should act, which I agreed for the most part and learnt new  things. However, she took me aback with a particular statement she made "you can't be a Christian and a feminist". She went ahead to attempt to back up her claim by saying "feminism is a cult group". At this point the only thing I could utter was Hmmm, wahala dey o. I immediately had to google the meaning of feminism and right after I searched for misandry. I know there has been a lot of attack on people who identify as a feminists but this was the first time I heard "...you can't be both a Christian and a feminist". I had a lot of questions as you might have guessed. I honestly just wanted to understand where

 I'm a very anxious person,80 percent of the time I'm nervous about something I don't like when people ask me questions. I don't find a lot of things interesting so you will find me quiet in most conversations other times I really do not have what to say or what I have to say is brief and I don't want people looking at me with a go-on expression. I'm a very emotional person and things hurt me in a blink, I'm just not very good with an expression so I come off as emotionless or nonchalant. I love food, I just have no interest in cooking. If I start quantifying your love, I'm preparing myself for the breakup. If I was in the UK or the US, I don't think I would have ever dated a black guy. I tend not to make any firm decision because once I decide on something my mind can't be changed. My attention span is limited. If you talk to me while I'm writing I will forget everything in my head. I dislike liars especially if we are in a relationship. I d