Random Facts About Me

I'm a very anxious person,80 percent of the time I'm nervous about something

I don't like when people ask me questions.

I don't find a lot of things interesting so you will find me quiet in most conversations other times I really do not have what to say or what I have to say is brief and I don't want people looking at me with a go-on expression.

I'm a very emotional person and things hurt me in a blink, I'm just not very good with an expression so I come off as emotionless or nonchalant.

I love food, I just have no interest in cooking.

If I start quantifying your love, I'm preparing myself for the breakup.

If I was in the UK or the US, I don't think I would have ever dated a black guy.

I tend not to make any firm decision because once I decide on something my mind can't be changed.

My attention span is limited.

If you talk to me while I'm writing I will forget everything in my head.

I dislike liars especially if we are in a relationship.

I don't like surprises, I prefer being the one to surprise you.

I can live with anyone as long as you are not constantly in my face or trying to make me become you.

I love guys with great fashion sense, I don't like those fashionistas.

I love a good-looking guy independent of the beards and chest so all those Instagram beard guys just stimulate my vomiting center.

I'm not an animal person.

I love my body, I just don't think I'll ever go to the beach.

The idea of getting stuck in an elevator terrifies me.

I don't care much about a lot of things so yes I'll probably understand why you did certain things.

I think about cutting my hair every day.

I don't have an issue with people talking about me, it's the confidence in saying inaccurate things that disturbs me.

I love to work, I just need to have an interest.

I'm never completely asleep.

I'm a very romantic person.

I don't believe you can completely be caught in the heat of the moment.

I don't think I'll ever visit a club.

I don't know if I can be in a relationship without kissing.

I think I'll be the one to cry at my wedding because finally my own person.

I don't like the smell of fish.

I can eat shrimps as long as you don't say shrimps.

I look good alone in a picture but with someone else, I'm just blah.

I talk a lot, you just have to be the person.

I don't like to celebrate my birthday, basically, anything that focuses on me is a no.

I dislike people who come up with different stories every time.

I'm scared of church boys like if you don't fear the Holy Spirit, who am I?

I'm always scared and I'll prefer someone I think can protect me hence my idea of someone bigger and taller than me.

P.s-I finally did cut my hair

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