Dimensionsofgold

God,what is wrong with people.Like, are we thinking from our intestines?.The video of the lady who proposed is trending and i am so amazed that people feel sorry for the lady because the guy was married.Hold on,so if the guy wasn't married and he accepted; that would have been a love story????.Really,no..that would have been the beginning of a well scripted tragic story.Proposing to someone means you are ready to take care of yourself and that person,it means you are responsible for the person.Come on,since you proposed;who will pay the bride price,or will it be the 'grooms price',who will pay the bills,who will pay the children"s school fees.I mean since you had that much courage to propose you should be ready for the task ahead.If they quarrel now,,he will say after all he wasn't ready for marriage.I know we are strong women,but it is not right for a girl to propose.Men can't even stand a very successful lady, what more the ones that feel the men they are...

One of the frustrating things in starting a new relationship is the ''what are we question''.I read a post where the writer said before you ask the ''what are we question''..give it time,but how long should it be before you ask.For me except you can live with unnecessary memories then ask the first week you guys met.In one week you can have sex with the person,on the first day you can kiss the person.In one week you can make your life revolve around him or her so unless you can bear the pain when he says something you didn't expect as to what you thought you would be to him..then ask him on time so you won't be sending some kinds of messages and the other party will be wondering what is happening. If you ask early and he says you are just friends...fine,you know you don't have to stress about him.If he says he just wants to enjoy the moment..cool,enjoy the moment as much as you can after all no one is accountable for anyone or back out.M...