#Relationship goals

God,what is wrong with people.Like, are we thinking from our intestines?.The video of the lady who proposed is trending and i am so amazed that people feel sorry for the lady because the guy was married.Hold on,so if the guy wasn't married and he accepted; that would have been a love story????.Really,no..that would have been the beginning of a well scripted tragic story.Proposing to someone means you are ready to take care of yourself and that person,it means you are responsible for the person.Come on,since you proposed;who will pay the bride price,or will it be the 'grooms price',who will pay the bills,who will pay the children"s school fees.I mean since you had that much courage to propose you should be ready for the task ahead.If they quarrel now,,he will say after all he wasn't ready for marriage.I know we are strong women,but it is not right for a girl to propose.Men can't even stand a very successful lady, what more the ones that feel the men they are dating do not have a future plan or is taking too long and then proposes.
Now to the dude who was married...wait,what is wrong with some men.Why did you give the poor girl hopes that she would end up with you.I mean,for her to propose you guys must have been in some really tight whatever or at least she felt she was.Why...i don't know.I pray i do not end up with one hell of a dude because i can't.

Why are you looking for perfection when you are already committed.This is the problem with today's relationship.Everyone is # goals,relationship goals.Goals what,really?? goals what.When you do not  have standards and you get into a relationship with some one who is also being malnourished, you think the relationship won't create its own balanced diet  for you..'a hot mess'.It will serve the both of you with that to the fullest.You will be swinging from one poor decision to another guy or girl with a different name,mask and what have you but the same character.God wants us to be in a relationship,being in one does not mean you are in some kind of business with the devil but relationships where the purpose is not known opens the door for the devil and as usual, he never misses an opportunity.

I think he might be the one,ooh she is cute let me hit her up and the rest.I know we might be super bored and lonely sometimes but if you had thought about that decision to hang out with him or her for just a few minutes, it would have saved you the stress you will go through.You would have known some people are not up for commitment.It literally do not exist in their to do list.

Stop tolerating relationships that are not helping you.Ooh i think he will break up with me, but he is taking away your joy,spending you peace and  can't afford to give you happiness.Break up with him or her,he is not helping you.Stop swinging and taking whatever comes your way.Have aims and purpose for a relationship before you start thinking of #goals.