Dimensionsofgold

I remember having a conversation with a love interest and in the course of that conversation he mentioned he wouldn't be kissing his partner until they got married. And I responded with a "lol". We had agreed on sex not being an option but kissing? I didn't see anything wrong with that. I had heard of couples whose first kiss was on the altar and I knew that wasn't going to be my story so when he said kissing was a no I knew this will only be a "could have/would have been relationship." I remember when Pastor Nathaniel Bassey tweeted "everyone is a Christian until it's their wedding day" and I just wondered if he wanted me to dance to "Is your name in the book of life." I'm not ready to get married now. I might be in 4/5 years but I can only plan, ultimately God's will be done. Click here to watch my non-negotiables in a man   My not being ready doesn't stop men from approaching me with their intent so I try to lay som...

I'm not even here to answer that question because honestly it is none of my business if you decide to and it is none of yours if I decide to. So just drink water and continue reading. I'm just here to paraphrase the question because really it is often if not always directed to the women like somehow they slept with themselves. Does having sex on the first date make me a hoe?...wrong question Does having sex on the first date make us hoes?..correct Society blah blah blah, double standards rubbish. If women can be hoes then what is wrong with men being described as hoes. It's so annoying that these same guys when they give their perfectly scripted useless reason on why a woman who has had sex on the first date should be described as a hoe, they go on and on about values and dignity...like shut the hell up. Values and dignity go both ways. You can't be thinking because I have slept with you I have lost my dignity before you  and the world at large while to me...