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Sex On The First Date

I'm not even here to answer that question because honestly it is none of my business if you decide to and it is none of yours if I decide to.
So just drink water and continue reading.
I'm just here to paraphrase the question because really it is often if not always directed to the women like somehow they slept with themselves.
Does having sex on the first date make me a hoe?...wrong question
Does having sex on the first date make us hoes?..correct

Society blah blah blah, double standards rubbish.
If women can be hoes then what is wrong with men being described as hoes.
It's so annoying that these same guys when they give their perfectly scripted useless reason on why a woman who has had sex on the first date should be described as a hoe, they go on and on about values and dignity...like shut the hell up.
Values and dignity go both ways.

You can't be thinking because I have slept with you I have lost my dignity before you  and the world at large while to me and the rest of the world your dignity is still intact.
If you want to talk about values or dignity, then we certainly took it off with our clothes.

These guys are saying dumb things like the girl isn't respecting her private part nonsense and there is a reason why it is private. It makes me wonder if the private part is just for women because if you can't call a guy who has sex on the first date a hoe then probably he doesn't have a private part or since we are blaming society, society has failed men once again by failing to recognize they too have a private part.
Guys if you feel because I slept with you on the first date then I have done the same with the rest of the first dates I have had; cool, wonderful but you know it goes both ways. If men can have that thought then why can't I as a woman?



With love,
Dimensionsofgold.

Oh no,oh no,oh no no no no no
Emmy in 2021 is reading this and wow just wow
First of all, no
Who annoyed you?
Let me put this out
I am not going to have sex on the first date
I am not even going to on the second

secondly, He created us male and female so the only language I subscribe to is man and woman, not hoes.
Thirdly, aside from the language and the way I presented this in 2018, two people had sex so if you want to judge or create a name for the act or whatever; involve both parties and let He without sin be the first to cast a stone.
Fourthly as long as that sex isn't within the confines of marriage, I'm sorry, it is wrong. I didn't make the rules.

Comments

  1. Hahaha, This made me smile. A refreshing take on an often polarizing topic. And you are right, the double standard is indeed appalling :-) Nicely written Emmy.

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  2. Nice dr..am gonna steal this

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