I am not the type to make new year resolutions because;come on..who am i deceiving.I don't get to do or fulfill any of it.The funny part is after the 1st week or so,i end up seeing the diary or whatever i used in writing the resolutions in a very unusual place and i am like..wooo emy;you wrote this.
I know what i want,i just do not write them down...so if you are like me who do not necessarily write down those stuffs but you just let each moment unfold while doing your best to stay in the right track ..then for us to be in the right track we need to;
1.Stay away from those "all of a sudden people":All of a sudden they are too busy and can't make time for you,all of a sudden your calls are on missed and your texts on read without replies,all of a sudden you are not a priority.Cut them off because all of a sudden they are wasting your time.
2.Stay away from on and off people:2018,you either be "on or off",there is no in between.You are either my friend or you are not,there is no space for frenemy. Those that will greet you today and the next day you are a stranger or those that their sight works only in the morning and by noon they no longer recognize,drop them in 2017.You are either "on or off",if you keep fluctuating you will blow, ask Nigerian bulbs.
3.Start investing in yourself:2018 means you are a year older,so you need to start saving money.I can not elaborate more on this.Save money,stop unnecessary spending.Invest in something that is worth it not in the toilet or closet.
4.Stop wasting peoples time:If you know you won't be of any benefit to him or her..leave the person alone.Guys,if you are fed up in your relationship end it;thou shall not waste the poor girls time.You have no idea of the kind of life she is fantasizing with you,so in order not to get her hopes too high because it is already high..end the relationship.Don't cheat on her,end the relationship and perform at your best wherever.Girls too,if your aim with the guy is just to get money..tell him so both of you can come to an agreement.2018,is not a year for one sided relationship.If you don't like him,tell him so he won't be spending on you with high hopes and then when he ask you out;you say you want to think about it.What are you thinking about.No out of pity relationships in 2018.
5.Start reading good books and stop watching movies that has no meaning or doesn't improve you in anyway:Nobody is getting younger,you need to watch movies that enlightens you so when you open your mouth to speak people will learn.They do not necessarily have to tell you they have learnt anything but you will be surprised that because of one particular statement you made, they respect you and who knows introduce you to people that will help you.Uncle and Aunty,the time of your life where you start advising people..curtain rolls;;;;;IS HERE.
6. Guys if you know you can't take care of yourself, leave a girl alone.Obviously for you to say you love her you need to be able to give.Don't come and join others in saying girls are always at the receiving end when you are still receiving from your parent and did not go for your type.When you went to ask a slay queen out, did you check if your bank account was on the slaying level.Start thinking..slay queens ..slay account.Go for your match. 2018 is not a year for sharwama and chicken boyfriend.Girls too..give yourself that respect and don't turn a guy into your parent.You need to be able to take care of yourself for you and if the guy hovering around you doesn't see the need to spend on you just know;it is his choice after all he is not your dad and secondly he is not the one.Forget the demanding side,just do you..until the relationship ends.
7.You are not entitled to anyone:Meaning you shouldn't be with people you are certain will not have your back when the time comes.You need people who will stand in for you when the world overshadows you.In as much as everyone is looking out for themselves,you need to have a supporting system.Make good friends.If you don't like your friends change them,if your destiny is tied to them and you can't change them,then change the way you think about them or better still pray for them.
8.Pray more and gossip less:There is a good side to gossips and it is human nature to talk about people, after all our every day lives is not with animals..the dog and cat kind of animals we meet in the office or class.My point, we relate with human beings so we need to talk about human beings,i don't even understand when people say they do not gossip.Whatever you want to say about someone shouldn't be to his or her detriment,,use your mouth to glorify Gods creation rather than ruin it.Pray more,there is no two side to this,if you do not start praying and having a relationship with God now,you still will.He is God all by himself and he created you so you will still need him when the world has dealt with you..that is if you are still alive.
9.Avoid conscious sin:They kind of sins we commit and we are aware it is a sin but we are anyways His grace is sufficient for us and he is a forgiving God still goes ahead to sin. Stop it.Sin is fun until it messes you up.
10.Appreciate more,say thank you more and show more gratitude to everyone,your parent,God and friends.
By the way,you think i do not have resolutions..news flash,i do.
1.To live for God
2 To love God
3.To love God more
He is God all by himself and i am nobody by myself,to start with i needed the help of my parent to bring me to earth,i will still get married and be entitled to my husband so why am i not living for God who brought about my different sources of survival.
Well done Emmy. some really thought provoking writing. :-) Happy New year!
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