Why do they feel instead of working things out and listening to what the girl even has to say at least to have a common ground, they bail out with the "you are so complicated"talk.
Why won't you see her as a complication' when she is going so hard for you and you are doing the bare minimum but still expect praises from her for doing what you are supposed to do.
Why won't you see her as complication when somewhere along the line you loosed interest in her and instead of addressing the issue,you become selfish and satisfy your greed outside and when she speaks up out of anger..you say she never understands you.
Why won't you see her as a complication when you didn't go for your level and for some unknown reasons you want her to lower her standards.If she doesn't,she becomes a proud girl.
I would never understand those who say women should lower their standard,there is a reason it is your own standard.It means it is what you have decided and comfortable with..
Whatever bar you set for yourself,there are people up there or down with you
You will cause a lot of commotion when instead of aiming for someone at your level,you decide to shoot higher or lower.Fine,if you sail through the problems that will come with this singular decision but bless your soul,if you can't sail across.
I don't understand why it is OK for people to say women should lower their bar else they won't find a guy rather than tell those guys to find people at their own level.
Why is that so hard.Why can't we just alight in our bus stop.Why do we even bother coming down at the wrong destination and expect things to go as planned.
If you lower your bars for a guy,why won't he say you are complicated when clearly you both are on different levels of intellectuality.He needs someone less of a challenge and even in your lowest you still seem a bit higher than him,he can't manipulate or walk over you,and then he starts singing his favourite song"you are so complicated"
When you let a guy who isn't anything close to your level in your life,you will have to slow down so he catches up with you.Synonym of slow down in this context is waste your time"
And then,when we do you a favour of letting you go because we love you so you could figure out how to be a man for yourself because if you can't be one for yourself,bless the soul of the lady you will meet...you accuse us of being materialistic,not committed and every other thing you will forever have to say.
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