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Hurtbae

Hy guys....been a while.I just couldn't figure out what to write about but thankfully i came across some hurtbae' recommendation and I'm surprised because this is the first time i really sat to watch what this duos had to say.So as usual i will interpret or rather explain most of the statement they made in their reunion' after a year.Kinda a reaction but not a video though.But,why did they have to meet up again and put it on you tube..like cut yourselves off.Really,how did they make this video..were they like uhh...Leonard can we do a hurtbae part 2.Before that,why are they even popular,people are being cheated on but their matter has not reached youtube yet. SMH. So Leonard cheated on Kourtney and they had a confronting video last year so this year they decided to do a meet up video. Kourtney :..... my life and career...180 degree turn,new followers  Leonard :  I'm in a good place...drinking more water...exfoliating... Yes girl...the dude broke your heart  a...

#Relationship goals

God,what is wrong with people.Like, are we thinking from our intestines?.The video of the lady who proposed is trending and i am so amazed that people feel sorry for the lady because the guy was married.Hold on,so if the guy wasn't married and he accepted; that would have been a love story????.Really,no..that would have been the beginning of a well scripted tragic story.Proposing to someone means you are ready to take care of yourself and that person,it means you are responsible for the person.Come on,since you proposed;who will pay the bride price,or will it be the 'grooms price',who will pay the bills,who will pay the children"s school fees.I mean since you had that much courage to propose you should be ready for the task ahead.If they quarrel now,,he will say after all he wasn't ready for marriage.I know we are strong women,but it is not right for a girl to propose.Men can't even stand a very successful lady, what more the ones that feel the men they are...

Lame quotes

Am i the only one who thinks some motivational or supposed inspirational quotes are just so lame.I love motivational quotes but some of it do not have any other meaning than what you have seen. Today,i will be writing out my thoughts or whatever, but below are some lame quotes; 1 . You miss 100% of the things you don't take What does that even mean.I didn't miss it, i just did not take it.It is the same thing as saying you miss the class you did not take,i didn't even take the class or the bus or whatever so how come i am now missing it.Don't search for deeper meaning because clearly there is none. 2.Whether you think you can or think you can't you are right: As much as it wants to sound sane it is not.I think i can fly but i can't,i think i can drive a car but i can't.I never thought i would accomplish some things but here i am.It should be"whether you think you can or can't,give it a try". 3.People die if they are killed: What was...

Cross Over Night

Hy 2017,it's that time of the year where people begin to think of promises they will make to your elder sister 2018 because apparently, you broke their heart or they broke yours! so they are finding ways to make amends in the new relationship they are about to get in. Uuum,you know..some will say you weren't the right partner, but for them to get out of you into a new relationship 2018 alive;damn you were worth the try.Well,the important thing is; your season is over and we all had our fair share of lessons and blessings,some of us didn't get to fulfill our own part of  promises to you through our new year resolutions and guess what,we are about making those promises again....hhahahah,did that make sense. I am not the type to make new year resolutions because;come on..who am i deceiving.I don't get to do or fulfill any of it.The funny part is after the 1st week or so,i end up seeing the diary or whatever i used in writing the resolutions in a very unusual place ...

2017

Story story.... I have been waiting for the right time to write this but every time i am always lost of words not until i saw a post on fb..a young pharmacy student in her finals got ill and died..i just can't believe He has seen me through until the last month of 2017.We don't look like what we have been through,this saying' is very correct.2017 wasn't exactly the best year but here i am today and i wouldn't blame 2017 but 2016. If there is one year i would want to be deleted  from my life,it's 2016.I made the worst kind of decisions..to sum it all..i lived 18 years in 12 months.Lets fast forward to when i arrived Ukraine;my whole life, i have always wanted to leave home..no one was maltreating me or whatever,i just didn't want to be at home.I imagined i will be much happier if i was far away from home so you can imagine my excitement when i finally left Nigeria.Appreciate your family,they are the ones that will always have your back no matter what....

Do we really need labels in a relationship.

One of the frustrating things in starting a new relationship is the ''what are we question''.I read a post where the writer said before you ask the ''what are we question''..give it time,but how long should it be before you ask.For me except you can live with unnecessary memories then ask the first week you guys met.In one week you can have sex with the person,on the first day you can kiss the person.In one week you can make your life revolve around him or her so unless you can bear the pain when he says something you didn't expect as to what you thought you would be to him..then ask him on time so you won't be sending some kinds of messages and the other party will be wondering what is happening. If you ask early and he says you are just friends...fine,you know you don't have to stress about him.If he says he just wants to enjoy the moment..cool,enjoy the moment as much as you can after all no one is accountable for anyone or back out.M...

PEACE

Most of us do not understand what being beautiful really mean.It is a conscious process and a work in progress.It is you living each day of your life not to the validation of others,not being depressed  because of circumstances but in all things making sure at the end of it all you have inner peace. Some of us do not just fit in any where we go,you know that moment when you are there but not there. Every other person is being noticed except you,you try your best but someone else is always picked over you and i understand why we need validation from others;you just want to be noticed and given a chance but one thing about validation,it always come with a price.You get to live each day of your life seeking it and whatever you do will never be satisfying. In everything,let the name of my Son be glorified so you will agree with me that the reason why you are not noticed or preferred when you have given your all is because you are not prepared for the calling God has for you.Your ...