Dimensionsofgold

You know when you read so many books there is a tendency for you to assume you know a lot.You actually do know a lot but does this massive chunks of knowledge you are acquiring align with Gods word. There are no grey areas with God and no matter how we try to justify our decisions, somethings will always remain wrong. So this is me reading anything i can pick on about relationship,life and so many self help books.My book shelf seems like i'm crazy and even when i know no one is perfect i get into a relationship with a list of what whoever i am with should look like. I get in with an expectation that has nothing to do with what God wants for me,i just get in to satisfy my needs. So i meet you,i  immediately assume my therapist job and analyse everything about you,every conversation and view point then i place your flaws before you. That's weird right;yea,i know.When i see you,i see your flaws,so i make a decision if i can put up with it or not. So my numerous book...

Dear men, Scratch that . Dear society, you know; never mind. I keep saying I want to have just boys because I want to teach them that being a guy isn't so much of a big deal,we all got blood running through our veins. When I listen to some guys speak it gets me annoyed,confused and a whole rush of different emotions I can't put into words. A woman speaks up for herself and she is labeled aggressive. Read the reason I left Feminism A woman tells you this is what she can put up with and y'all say she got an attitude that would lead her no where.  Well, I don't want to go no where with you and that mentality. When a guy does any of this some how the word personality appears in the dictionary and everyone goes on and on saying thats just his personality,"Its a masculine thing". Well, you are damn right it's a feminine thing that i won't put up with any thing you believe a woman should put up with simply because she is a woman and if it takes m...

Your last words were "Okay, what is wrong" What is wrong? Are you serious? I waited for your message hoping out of respect you would text but respect isn't your strongest attribute. I waited out of love believing the lies you fed me with but all you did was  confirm  lies were your strongest attributes. It took me days to realize you loved me at your convenience, when you felt I was deserving. When you had too much to eat and the crumbs were littered everywhere, so you fed me with your deserving crumbs. And oh dear even your deserving love wasn't deserving at all. I loved you with all of me I wish I could change this. But you thrive on being chased  so you loved me with the extra things I did to get your attention. And, Yes Did I want this attention. You borrowed my love to love me no wonder I felt so much void with you. I poured in so much and yet, you kept stealing. So much for telling everyone to be careful  with whom...

"It's my body I can do whatever I want with it" Amongst the numerous quotes and sayings I have recently deduced as 'wrong', this happens to be the most insane. To crown it all, there are movements to actually support this notion  headed by women who claim to be Christians when the question of religion and going to church arises but when it comes to how they should dress to church and life at large it suddenly becomes; 'its my body, I can do what I want". This movement has been covered under the canopy of 'self love and do you, the world will adjust' and it just surprises me when Christian women pledge to this movement with their dressing without understanding God will never adjust to mans movement when he has a movement of his own. Click to read my views on making vows It is very confusing because in as much as these women claim to pray and study the word, I have reasons to believe they ignore verses where God says our bodies belong t...

Y'all, I'm so happy and grateful about my blog's growth, new readers, engagements, and all the re-post. So I thought what better way to show my excitement than let you all know about the person behind Dimensionsofgold. Well, my smart self couldn't come up with a get to know questions but my very good friend came in handy so let us get started; 1.What is your full name, how old are you and where are you from? My name is Emediong Francis Udoudoh, I'm 20yrs, from Akwa Ibom State, Nigeria. 2021-23 2.Why do you write? Because I can and it's a gift from God. 2021-I'm barely writing of recent. 3.What inspires you the most? Reading other people's writing gets my imagination working. 2021-Consistency 4.Who did you idolize growing up No one. 5.What gets to you most Harsh words or statements. 6.What's your favorite book? Why Ask Why by John Mason. 7. What's your favorite song? and why? You are gonna be ok by Jenn Johnson bec...

Last 2 weeks i wrote the first part of how we could maintain our individuality while being in a relationship.Maintaining individuality in summary is; how can i be a part of us without loosing me,how can i still be focus on my dreams and goals without neglecting our dreams and goals. For the second part of this topic,couples should: MAINTAIN THEIR INTEREST Isn't it weird people loose themselves in the course of changing their personal interest to match the interest of their partner when from Genesis it was those personal interest that really attracted this partner. Some people go as far as making their partners dream theirs neglecting their own goals.You should support your partner 100% but don't make his/her dream yours.No matter the energy and time you invest in a dream that is not yours, you will never be satisfied regardless of if the goal is achieved or not.Support him/her all you can but let their dream be theirs and work on your own.There is so much joy that comes ...

Individuality in a relationship means there is me,there is you and then there is still room for us,so maintaining individuality in a relationship is;how can i be a part of 'us' without losing myself. There are two groups of people in relationships; the first group gets into a relationship with expectations that this union for some reasons best known to them will wash away their insecurities and unresolved past lives and the second group are those with the illusion that this relationship will build,grow them and whatever illusion they have. I'm not disputing the notion.Relationships should help you grow,if it is not helping you grow then you are just in a ship but when you go into a relationship with this mindset there will be an imbalance because one person is depending on the other person for growth or both individuals are expecting this bond to help them grow which will not happen. So within this fantasy or illusion of growth both individuals begin to lose the...