Scratch that.
Dear society,
you know; never mind.
I keep saying I want to have just boys because I want to teach them that being a guy isn't so much of a big deal,we all got blood running through our veins.
When I listen to some guys speak it gets me annoyed,confused and a whole rush of different emotions I can't put into words.
A woman speaks up for herself and she is labeled aggressive.
A woman tells you this is what she can put up with and y'all say she got an attitude that would lead her no where.
Well, I don't want to go no where with you and that mentality.
When a guy does any of this some how the word personality appears in the dictionary and everyone goes on and on saying thats just his personality,"Its a masculine thing".
Well, you are damn right it's a feminine thing that i won't put up with any thing you believe a woman should put up with simply because she is a woman and if it takes me being aggressive for you to get my message; then aggressive I will be.
About cooking, I come from a family where everyone literally knows how to cook.
My dad cooks,my elder brother cooks so when I meet a guy who doesn't know how to cook it's a strange feeling I'm new to and won't ever get used to.
Good,you don't know how to cook I won't ever get used to that but I won't judge you.
So are you cool with me not cooking and he says uum you should know how to cook so you could teach your children and you won't starve your husband.
I'm just wondering; why do I have to learn how to cook so I could teach my children.Before the children come, I'm here so I should learn how to cook so I would survive.Everyone should know the basics of cooking so they can survive irrespective of gender.
So as long as the expectations are properly set that we are going to share this then I will do it because I'm better at it not because you have some unrealistic expectations that I should do it because I'm a woman.
Do I think the sole responsibilities of cooking should be on the woman;No
but do I believe women should learn how to cook;Yes
You don't have the right to say I can't be with a woman who can't cook if you don't as much as know the basis of survival.
Well, I don't want to go no where with you and that mentality.
When a guy does any of this some how the word personality appears in the dictionary and everyone goes on and on saying thats just his personality,"Its a masculine thing".
Well, you are damn right it's a feminine thing that i won't put up with any thing you believe a woman should put up with simply because she is a woman and if it takes me being aggressive for you to get my message; then aggressive I will be.
About cooking, I come from a family where everyone literally knows how to cook.
My dad cooks,my elder brother cooks so when I meet a guy who doesn't know how to cook it's a strange feeling I'm new to and won't ever get used to.
Good,you don't know how to cook I won't ever get used to that but I won't judge you.
So are you cool with me not cooking and he says uum you should know how to cook so you could teach your children and you won't starve your husband.
I'm just wondering; why do I have to learn how to cook so I could teach my children.Before the children come, I'm here so I should learn how to cook so I would survive.Everyone should know the basics of cooking so they can survive irrespective of gender.
So as long as the expectations are properly set that we are going to share this then I will do it because I'm better at it not because you have some unrealistic expectations that I should do it because I'm a woman.
Do I think the sole responsibilities of cooking should be on the woman;No
but do I believe women should learn how to cook;Yes
You don't have the right to say I can't be with a woman who can't cook if you don't as much as know the basis of survival.
And yoo,men just stop it; I don't like cooking and I don't know how to cook are two different sentences with obviously different meanings.
One can survive,one will assume responsibilities when called for and if need be, the other person can't.
With that being written
I'm Emediong and this is Dimensionsofgold.
One can survive,one will assume responsibilities when called for and if need be, the other person can't.
With that being written
I'm Emediong and this is Dimensionsofgold.
Big smile reading this. Well written, hypocrisy from some guys can only be called out in so many words. :-) Nicely written.
ReplyDeleteLovely!✊
ReplyDeleteAnd I so love this, nice one ��
ReplyDeleteThumbs up!! Well written....
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