Some people are just together, they are not in a relationship.They assume or feel they are in one.Girls know the essence of your relationship.How can you as a young girl, one man is monopolizing your air space:browse you won't browse,click you won't click.A guy is following you around,he wants to know who is talking to you,he wants to know who you are greeting.You are receiving a call;who called you,you are going here;who are you meeting,you are coming back;where are you coming from,i called you,your number was busy and so;are you a monitoring spirit.The way we girls carry this relationship matter is the reason why we lose ourselves trying to make one guy who is fit to be in our past look perfect.If a guy hasn't married you,he has no right to tell you what to do and girls too,you have no reason to have patience or endure any form of rubbish from him.If a guy meets you with your full self esteem he will respect you,this is not about pride but you can be proud of your inner convictions to do what is right.The truth is as young girl you don't even need a guy.You came out from your mothers womb alone even if you are a twin,so nobody has the right to make you uncomfortable.We girls should understand our choices too and also believe we are enough.Am writing this from experience. Until i loved my own self,i thought i needed a guy.You don't need to be arrogant,but you can say yes calmly and mean it,same with no.Don't stress over a guy who won't make it to your future,your future is so important for one guy to crumble it.Some people are just to play some roles in our lives,so when they want to leave help them pack their loads,don't just stress that.BETTER BE A HAPPY QUEEN WITHOUT A KING,THAN AN UNHAPPY GIRL WITH A KING.You can't even be unhappy and call yourself a queen.Funny enough,at the end of it all,provided we serve God early enough,we will all get married.SERVE GOD NOW BECAUSE YOU WILL STILL SERVE HIM...you can't change that.
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