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BRIDE PRICE

As long as a woman marrying depends on a man
toiling to earn enough money to marry her
As long as a man still has to face the herculean demands
of fulfilling a "list " in the name of paying bride price
As long as a woman is still considered a source of wealth
by her own people
As long as her own people continue to consider her as a valuable property
to be given out
The concept of bride price is the major root factor for objectifying women
The question is
SHOULD A WOMANS WORTH BE PLACED ON HER BRIDE PRICE.
No matter the millions placed on a woman
it can't amount to her nine months of pains mixed with joy
it can't amount to her sleepless nights
or her whole life of pleasing her husband
Bride price should be a token not an exploitation.





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