On Dating

There is one thing I live by or at least I feel like I do, for you to be in my life you need to be the very best. 
This means I need to be the best to attract the best.
 Occasionally I slip, occasionally I settle, and like every one of us we have replaced best for good so I'm constantly torn between moving on to another person and replacing the same person with a different name and the cycle continues.
Well, I'm among the 99% of humans with the talent of making bad decisions.
Whew, I would have probably dated the whole world when I'm done replacing but good thing I realized not so early enough though, there is a difference between good and best.
You can't be preparing yourself for the best and settling for good.

Yoo, I'm still Dimensionsofgold and I'm here to let you know,
You don't need someone who is good for you, you need someone who is best for you.
Well, this applies to those working on being the best.
If you are working on being the best, you are probably good so why settle for good when there is an option for best. Elevate your mind.

These days, I have been looking for the grey lines in every situation but just like every one of us we have refused to accept some things are just black and white.

I saw a post that said everyone is going through the same things just at different times so my next scenario, I guess applies to everyone.
So, we meet someone, we know they are good, they might probably tick our boxes but deep inside we know they are not the best for us.
We know something is missing but help me God we make up reasons to still be with the person, this starts off as a very harmless situation but ends up toxic.

We wasted our time but guess what our mantra will be"there is always a lesson to learn in every relationship".
You know what,
There is always a lesson to be learned in every situation, next.

If you meet someone and they treat you bad, make you question your self-worth and all that or in my scenario, you know something is off but you just can't place it so you are always asking questions.
If you continue to be with this person. 

You are not learning anything new.
You knew it the first time when you met him/her and you asked questions or when you knew something was missing.
Once you decide to be with this person, no new lesson will be learned rather every thing that will happen is a result of your decision.
If you continue to stay, you are wasting your time and nothing is being learned again.

For what it is worth, I believe most of us if not all have learned enough lessons to last us a lifetime.
We are dealing with humans and relationship is the key to a successful life, the lessons are almost all the same every single time.
Trust me, there is nothing new, if it hasn't happened to you directly then your friends or family has learned it before or you have read it in a book.
Don't be stuck in a situation thinking you might learn something, there is a probability you will but there is also a chance that you knew how this would end but you decided to stay so no new lesson was learned but valuable time was wasted.

With that being written,
I am Emediong and this is Dimensionsofgold.