You know,when we are all lonely and be reading motivational quotes about temporary people we fail to recognize we also are temporary to others.Its a two way road just as you cuss your ex out,we should also remember we are someones ex and probably he or she is swearing out on us too.
Some people are meant to be temporary and that is one thing we cannot change.You meet people for a reason,we all know that.When that reason is over..it is naturally uncomfortable for the person to stick around.It is an unwritten law of nature.But,how do you react when it seems like your life is full of temporary people;
1.You need to understand and have it at the back of your mind that people will always look out for themselves first.When you know this and people leave your life all of a sudden then you won't be so surprised because it is always about them and if the table is turned;it will be about you too.
2.Do not let anything surprise you.Everyone has a stretch limit and can do anything if they reach that level.Nothing should surprise you.When you read that people go from 0 to 100 real quick,that is some serious issue and there is no scam in that.
3.It is inevitable not to meet temporary people but at the same time,you need good friends who will stand with you when the world starts moving because certainly it will.In your temporary meetings,there should be reservation for permanence.
4.Understand that everyone you meet is a part of your story.Someday you might share it with the world or it may become a memory that comes up from time to time.Life is a story and if we do not meet these temporary people...what a boring story that would be.
5.Everyone is temporary at some point and when we do not accept that a particular persons role is over..we tend to prolong their stay in our lives because we got so comfortable with them and no one loves the missing feelings we are bound to get when they metamorphose into strangers. Rollllls drummmmmmmm....this is the cause or rather this is what opens the door to toxic relationships.When people turn into strangers,some times it is good to bid them farewell and let then remain in that spot.
Instead of yearning for the lost,reserve the energy and notice the permanent ones sticking around.
When people come into our lives,we sometimes know if they are from the permanent species or not.Trust your gut.You meet some people and you do not have a commitment with them...you are so in love with the idea of commitment with a stranger so when you do a 2,they are at 0.1,and for some unknown reasons we tend to be comfortable with it.In Drakes voice..i love you enough for the both of us..Once that thought kicks in, that you are the only person trying to make a relationship or friendship whatsoever stand then you need to see that person for the temporary person he or she is and move at their pace too because they will leave no matter how slow they tend to be and no matter how fast we think that someday they might turn into the permanent idea we have created for them.
I learned the hard way, that i too was temporary to others so i let people be and let life just take it course.Eventually some people stick around and we do not even notice or acknowledge them because we are too busy chasing a lost cause,mourning over someone whose part is over,then we complain as usual that our lives will never be a complete thread because of the numerous temporary people interwoven in our journey.
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