Dimensionsofgold

Once i had a conversation with someone and somehow it evolved into me describing my boyfriend that never existed,he paused me;laughed and said"you are actually describing someone that doesn't exist" and as usual,he went on to advise me that i shouldn't have a type rather i should just go with whoever comes.Thats a pretty good advice for some people. For the longest time,i felt i should love unconditionally and also get an unconditional love in return and you know i tried that but i'm more of a conditioned loving kind of person.The reason you need a type is not so you fit a particular person in the box you have created because really no one person can actually be your type,but to avoid meeting the same waves of people all because you are going with the flow.Yes,you need a type so you can say no to what will end badly rather than take a chance.The devil is working day and night,you can't take a chance with your destiny. Your type comes from your personality ...

Self love:regard for ones well being and happiness. There are two sides to everything but i guess self love happens to just have 4.One side is the victim,the other side is complications while the remaining two sides shares fear.Everyone is preaching self love when the other person  is at rock bottom or let me rephrase;we blame the people who are at rock bottom or something close for not loving themselves enough.By the way, amidst our self love preaching we are still not loving ourselves. Moreover,it is easier to say people are not giving themselves the kind of love they deserve when you are on the other side of the coin because to be on the side of complications is better than being a victim. I feel most people who think they love themselves a lot are actually on the level of complications.Trust me,complications love themselves but still feel a slight emptiness the self love journey they embarked on isn't filling. Maybe i do not understand what self love really mean or...

Someone just called me her sister and I'm like;really. We have been through ups and downs and in my wildest dream I never thought she will still call me her sister  which brings me to todays topic: Love. I love"love"..yea. Its the most beautiful feeling in the world especially if you are someone who loves with their whole heart and then; finds some one who can contain all the love you have to offer. which is what I like and dislike about myself ;I can't half love anyone. If I have feelings for you its starting from 100 and I have tried severally to cut it down but I end up punishing myself in the process. If you are like me you are going to find true love one day but before that day you might go through a whole lot. If you are told you are too much or too intense take it as a red flag and leave It will hurt but just know, they were never meant to hold you and all you can offer so don't let any one shrink you. How do you know he or she is the one? truth is: o...